Fuckbuddies are perfect for those of us who don’t want a relationship, aren’t ready for a relationship, or for those of us who just want to get our rocks off. A fuckbuddy relationship can range from “easy livin’” to “it’s complicated”. There are actually quite a few different types of fuckbuddies. We have listed some of the most common ones below. Fuckbuddies are not a one size fits all, just like a romantic, committed relationship is not a one size fits all and just like a friendship is not a one size fits all. If you’re looking for something specific, make sure you tell your new fuckbuddy that at the beginning of the relationship. It is so much easier to communicate all of your wants, needs and desires at the beginning. That way, if you are looking for different things, good riddance and bring in the next handsome chap….or…chapess? We know that’s not a word, but anyway…..back to the list:
Your fuckbuddy can provide more than a powerful orgasm from time to time. They can give you that affection and body warmth you’ve been missing for the past year and a half of your single, isolated life. Be a cuddle buddy with your fuckbuddy. There are tons of studies that show how cuddling positively impacts you This is definitely not for the faint of heart, though. If you are planning on simply staying fuckbuddies, then also becoming a cuddlebuddy may not be the right move for you, especially if you know that you tend to develop feelings for your fuckbuddy or you want a monogamous fuckbuddy.
The binge and purge is one of our favorites for those slutty nights out or loud nights in. This is more of a one-night stand than a fuckbuddy. The binge and purge will allow you to feel the freedoms of being a single woman/man with the knowledge that you will never see this particular fuckbuddy again. This is especially great for those of us who don’t want to form any type of relationship and really just need some good, good lovin’.
This one is essential to have in your back pocket if you’re one of those rowdy guys/gals who likes to have a bit of adult fun led by some cocktails, loud music, dancing and bar stools. A late-night meet and fuck is the type of fuckbuddy that you can call at any time and they will be knocking down your door in no time. Picture this: it’s 2AM, you’re just getting home from a long night out with your friends and you’re horny as all hell. How amazing would it be to always have someone at your disposal with none of the responsibilities of a traditional relationship? Sure, that makes it sound like you are using your fuckbuddy….but aren’t you both just using one another?
Watch out for first steppers if you’re not looking to fall into a relationship but tend to go that route most of the time anyway. First steppers are those of us that use fuckbuddies as a stepping stone for a relationship. Fuckbuddies who want to remain fuckbuddies don’t always remain fuckbuddies. Once again, make sure you communicate with your partner early on as to what is expected from this fuckbuddyship. Of course, you always have to take into account the fact that feelings may persist even if you don’t want them to. If you fuckbuddy turns out to be more than that, then congratulations; you are a first stepper!