Whether you are single and ready to mingle or in a committed, beautiful relationship, people tend to get curious about what else there is out there when it comes to sex. All too often, if one is in a relationship, one tends to fall into a “Lesbian Bed Death”, (as they call it – in this case it applies to relationships between any two consenting adults,) at some point.
If you don’t actively try to spice things up and mix things up every once in a while, you may find all of the lust and passion has left your bedroom, not to mention your relationship. If you are single, this is the PERFECT time to try a threesome. You are free to do as you please with whom you please and you should take advantage of that while you can – taste the rainbow. All of it. Or, if you happen to be single with a less-than-eventful sex life that mainly involves your hand or a toy you picked up at your local sex shop, it’s time to stop this madness of monotony and gets all of your needs met and then some.
Like we said, whether you are single or coupled up, a threesome is always a fun and flirty way to get it on. So how do you find said threesome? A hookup site is your best option! But….how do you find a threesome on a hookup site? Follow these simple rules in order to find a fruitful relationship in the boudoir with sixty fingers instead of forty, six hands instead of four and three tongues instead of two.
Transparency is your best friend on these fuck sites and apps. You are here for a specific reason – to find a threesome, so you can’t be wishy-washy about it. There are no two ways about it; you are here to get it on with two other warm bodies and enjoy one another’s company. That means that in your bio you need to state that you are looking for a night of fun with two lovers, (if you are single,) or that you are a COUPLE looking for a third to join in for some adult fun. Don’t waste your time or anybody else’s by leaving out pertinent details such as this one.
Not everybody is into getting it on with couples, nor is everybody on these hookup sites looking to have a threesome. Once again, before wasting your time and someone else’s time, take fifteen seconds to read over a bio prior to messaging. If they explicitly say NO COUPLES, and you are sitting next to your better half, then maybe you should skip over this cutie and head toward the next one.
Couples, make sure to post photos of yourselves. You are not trying to hide the fact that you are two individuals that are living life together. Catfishing is so 2010. Not only that, but if you are a couple looking for a third, people in that position can feel vulnerable. So by allowing them to see you and have proof of who you are and what you look like, they will be more inclined to trust you and meet up with you sooner in order to get it on.
Let yourself be open to the possibility of ending up indulging in a night of naughty play with a married couple, with a fresh couple, with a couple of strangers….you never know what you might find on these hookup sites and by leaving yourself open to possibilities, you are more likely to have a night, (or many nights,) that will blow your mind.
Make sure to stay open to all of the possibilities. Don’t knock it till you try it. You never know what you might end up liking….
